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Thanks for your response hotwheelsaust! And thanks for the compliment. It IS TOUGH! But, I realize that I have no other choice right now if I want to give our M any chance at all. I'm going to maintain my DB techniques and keep mum on what I know. Hopefully, I'll see something change but have no idea what kind of time frame I'm looking at. I'm already 180 degrees more pleasant to be around than I was a month ago, but W still complains to OM that she can't stand being around me. Of course, if what I've learned so far from DB, this community, "affair fog" research, etc. is true, she's a little out of her mind and it's all about her pleasure, needs and selfishness right now. Man, that's the hard part. Knowing what I do and watching it everyday. The lies to my face, the grand hugs and kisses for our 2 boys when she comes home and the little nod I get. Whew.