Hi Cato4! Thanks for your input. I'm in agreement with you regarding my situation. I believe it's still too early to determine boundaries and as I mentioned to AnotherStander, I'd hate to instigate a radical response from W.

I'm looking for different perspectives on this whole thing. How did your revelation come to light? What was the response from spouse? What happened next?

Again, thanks for responding.

Vince B
M=10 yrs T=13 yrs
M45 / H 44
2 Boys 5 & 8
D Day: 7/16/13