Mtnman, you are doing so well. W is still very interested in you. Sometimes our spouses slip back into the old ways (honey) and they forget where they are when they are having a great time.

A year ago July, the day my H bought his Mercedes, we were on the phone and I was gushing about how beautiful the car was and he said ILY by accident! It floored me too!

Also, about the Instagram, sometimes they want you to know their interest in you. But my H has let me know clearly more than once he wasn't "close friends" with me on FB. It's the push-pull dynamic.

It's nice she sent you the video of your jump. And it's so good you have a level head about safety. I'm sure W appreciates that about you. I'm sure there are many ways you remind her of her beloved father but you have that "big boys can have fun, too" mentality. She is attracted to it, but very afraid for her heart right now.

You keep going, I love your updates as you keep plunging into territory ahead yet keeping it all together (home, boys, work, and keeping-the-door-open for W)!!!


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway