Oh also how do you suggest responding to inquiries about my whereabouts? Sometimes when he cares he's really interested to know where I am and what I'm doing. I always end up answering truthfully and it's always something boring and predictable (food shopping, at his moms, book store). The difference now is that I no longer tell him in advance what I'm doing. Anyway last night I didn't tell him what I was doing and my phone battery died. I have an iPhone so I was able to see he called several times and then he sent a text asking of I'd fallen off the grid. My response was to call him as soon as I charged my phone and saw. Then I texted him what happened /where I was. Of course he didnt pick up or respond to my txt at that point (though to be fair he was at a night event for work). How should I have responded? Should I have just been more coy about what i was doing? Should I have just called once but not followed up with explanatory text?


Me 35 H 34
DS- newborn 8/13
T 8.5 M 7
H's EA - 10/11
INILWY 5/13
DBing 6/13
Don't know WTF to do 1/14