Thanks, all!! I am excited too! Linda...no reply needed for the email, it was a clarification from me, not a needed validation from him. I am also, these days, making sure that what I say is clear as I can make it.
No pain, actually, I am, for the first time, more than a little excited about my path going forward. While I wonder what H does and if he is out or sleeping at new interest's house, it's more like SD's "Isn't that interesting"....and it's gone.
I will wait for H to catch up until I am not anymore, if that makes sense?
The conversation this past weekend lent itself to the huge amount of power the LBS has, because ultimately we decide what we want to do; wait or move on. No one can take or make that decision for us. Once I realized that, everything became okay.
And Tori, my groove was a little off beat to the music of my life, but I think I am back in sync
