H is mad. Which I knew he would be. He always is. He sent my attorney an MSA which is basically an exact repeat of the MSA H sent in January that my attorney and I dismissed and said was unacceptable. H wants to lay far less than the state mandate, no maintenance, and he wants 50/50 placement of the kids on a 2/2/3 schedule. Number one I have never ever agreed to 50/50. That's what the fight is about and number two, I would never agree to the 2/2/3 schedule. Too hard on the kids, but it's easy on H. No way.
At least he's on board with the property part, or so he says. He agrees to refinance in 90 days, but I don't know how he can possibly refinance now!!! He disclosed to my attorney his personal debt. It's unbelievable how much debt H has amassed in a year. Not only does he have our marital debt, but there's over $10,000 in personal debt, not including what he owes the attorney. How can someone get that much debt??? I think H has painted himself into a corner. He lashed out at me like a rattlesnake.
I don't know what is going to happen now. I want it to be over, but now is the time I need to be smart and hang on tight and fight for tenacity.
In other news, a dear friend and co-worker was fired (let go) yesterday. He had been there over 25 years and it's such a shock and it really disheartens and angers me. He's been such a support for me. I wish I could repay the favor.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
