I would like to be able to come home without all the drama and stress. After 14 yrs of marriage, I would like to finally be the decision maker in my home.
Part of this process is to do some real soul searching and ask what you have contributed to the failure of your marriage. I have done that internal review.
What I realize is that my W was very demanding and controlling. I was always the one to give, always the one to compromise. She never showed me the love that I needed and I was always left begging for scraps. I am not saying I am perfect, or that I couldn't have done some things better. In the end, though, I made an honest effort and it is clear to me that I deserve so much more.
I want my W gone and out of my life. I want to move forward.
