The Show Must Go On

[RosaLinda]

"I have the same impression that he signed to a dating site because he is lonely and because he cannot find a partner he wants (willing to go to the bars with him, responsible and fun, no nagging, no jealousy, no demands, no arguments about anything, no small kids, not too fat, in other words a harmonious relationship.) But it tells me that he hasn’t changed his mind about ending our M and looking for a new R. I’m thinking that until he tries what is out there and finds that what he had with was the best ever, he will continue looking. But if he gets involved into a R, even though it will not work, I might be done by then. IDK if I will be able to have an R with him after that. I think that knowing that he signed for a dating site stops me from initiating any contact."

Wow I missed this Bright. That's some harmonious relationship

I don't think the fact that your H joined a dating site indicates that he hasn’t changed his mind about ending your marriage at all. He didn't even ever use it, did he? He may have thought he would give it a try and then forgot all about it.  

Believe me, if your H really wanted a new R, he would be able to find a woman who would at least PRETEND to be all those things. Well except for not being fat. A lot of women are desperate to find a man and to catch your H would be glad to instantly turn into someone who is willing to go to bars, is responsible yet fun, would never nag or act jealous, would be agreeable with no demands or arguments about anything ever, and her small kids would not be mentioned, believe me! Look at my H - online he is a successful business man!