"The minute you stop lying to yourself is never pretty. ;P
Today in an email I clarified that I was becoming a WAS, but emotionally, because when someone doesn't want to be around you, it hurts, even if he has never said a word. We nitpicked, argued, strong armed (that was me...) but didn't communicate. I said that if I had been capable of this level of communication and growth in the marriage, maybe things would have been different."
I think it's so great that you and your H are growing and changing Ruby, but sure wish you two were growing together. Don't you think if you and H are able to communicate so well now, that things could be different now? If you were willing to wait for him to catch up to you?
I know you weren't forward to them all getting home. Is everything okay? Did H respond to your email? I'm sorry you are in so much pain my friend.�
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
