K,I still think about my H. It's ok to think about them occasionally but not so that it stops you from moving on with your life. It is still early days for you, so no-one is expecting you to be doing much GALing or 180ing at the mo, but you are doing really well not contacting him Believe it or not, it is less stressful when you don't contact your WAS! You may not think so at the mo, but when they don't answer their phone or get back to you for a day or two then it becomes stressful! I hope you are coping ok being on your own with your two boys There'll be lots to organise especially with the new school term, so that will keep you busy Have you got any plans this week? I've got a bit of paperwork that I keep putting off, lol. I've had a busy day today, so I'm a bit tired at the mo I'm taking my son to a youth club tomorrow and I'm stopping over with him to help out tomorrow and Thursday. Friday it's doctors and shopping, Saturday - nothing planned at the moment but I'm sure to find something and Sunday it's Church.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!