Hi. Thanks for the advice. I held off on confronting. I have gotten halfway through the divorce remedy. And have begun some techniques my coach recommended.
My sitch is a bit different as my husband travels for work and is gone usually about 3 to 4 nights a week. So he is living it up with his buddies when he is gone skyping his friends all over the world and then annoyed when he comes home because he has a wife and kids and responsibilities. And he lets us know it all the time! Does anyone know how to handle that? Coming and going. Would love the advice.
Finally. I have done for people for so long myself that I seem to have forgotten what I even like. So on that note I have decided to see a therapist to deal with me. What I want to be when I grow up! I did pick a pro marriage counselor. Thanks for writing back!
Fighting for my life W=45 H=38 M=18yrs D=16 D=13 Bomb Dropped = 5/10/13 Still in house for I guess another two years according to him.