Thanks Hotwheels for the words. You have been dark since June 1 with your W? This is where I am having trouble at the moment. Some say you should not lose complete contact because it could cause the sitch to really drift away. But then again, most dont get anywhere with even minor email contact so why not go dark. Are you waiting for your W to contact you?
2old, there has been very little contact via any means during my sitch. I have tried different approaches as per DB coach, but the reality is nothing changed. I have been dark since 1st June, and I think I have sent 2 texts only. One about the time booked for the taxman the other I cannot even remember now. She has initiated texts 3 or 4 times, but again, nothing really there, just simple stuff to meet regarding asset splitting. I simply feel the W (I know it is mindreading) is waiting for me to 1. transfer out of the country (end of the year) 2. split the assets 3. she will then do the divorce papers While I think she is an emotional wreck (again mindreading), I also feel the EA and family (all divorced) are supporting her with no reconciliation ideas.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
