I like your thinking Spartan and I think your posts are helping me as well, even though this is 2old's thread I know what you mean about the right DB strategy as well, I often think am I doing this right?
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!