I agree HWA My sitch was similar as well. On the morning of the BD, my H ran me and my son to the train station to catch the train to the nearby city. We were going to sealife there (not as big as seaworld but good anyway!). H said he couldn't go as he had a removal job on that day. Little did I know the removal job was him! I took loads of photos for my H because I thought it was a shame that he missed it, bought him a souvenir and then we went to do a bit of shopping in town. I tried to ring H but he wasn't replying. I tried to ring again when we were on the way home on the train and he texted me to say he's left! I got home and he'd taken a bed, a chest of drawers and some other stuff! However 4 months down the line, I am moving on and getting on with my life. I pick myself up quite quick, mainly because I have a son to look after so that helps my GALs. I still want him back, but I've got a few new friends now and a few mutual friends that have dropped by the wayside (their decision not mine!). I used to moan all the time to my friends about H and I did feel bad at the time about doing this. However my good friends have stuck by me through thick and thin and now I hardly talk about H at all! I was very proud of myself today My friend was the one who brought the subject up about how we are getting on. I always speak positively about my H, but I also add that I still love him and still want him back. I know it's very early days for me, he's got a long way to go before he reaches the other end of the MLC tunnel! BTW HWA, You're not too old for this sitch at 50! I'm going to be 50 in 2 years time and I still think of myself as young I suppose now it helps as I've got younger friends, so they keep me young
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
My sitch was similar as well. On the morning of the BD, my H ran me and my son to the train station to catch the train to the nearby city. We were going to sealife there (not as big as seaworld but good anyway!). H said he couldn't go as he had a removal job on that day. Little did I know the removal job was him! I took loads of photos for my H because I thought it was a shame that he missed it, bought him a souvenir and then we went to do a bit of shopping in town. I tried to ring H but he wasn't replying. I tried to ring again when we were on the way home on the train and he texted me to say he's left! I got home and he'd taken a bed, a chest of drawers and some other stuff! 
