(((((doubledown)))) OK. Now you know. Now stop snooping. It's only going to hurt you. You are not going to like anything you find right now. We've all been there when dealing with infidelity. The obsessive urge to "know", to "understand" her choices. They are never going to make sense to you.

Did your DB coach tell you not to confront her on her A? There is definitely a time and place for it. What was DB Coach advice?

Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13