He's the confused one...

[BRNR]

Hi all!!!

Just updating. It has been a while, and I actually have some down time. YAY!

Well, nothing much has happened on my end. I have actually gone dark with H (I think it has been a month) for my own sanity...it has helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!!

I have no desire to see him, talk to him, or communicate with him. Honestly, I don't even really want a R anymore, but as Snodderly suggested "do nothing" at least about the sitch has been my motto. Besides I don't have the time, energy or money to pour into and don't want to waste my valuable resources doing so.

Stuff surfaces everyday of all the lies, deceit and betrayal H pulled to be with OW, as I do cleaning around my house, hear from family, or friends who have "seen or heard things" that I wasn't aware of. And it only singes my heart for the moment and then I move on. Such a good place to be.

So for the past month I have lived...enjoyed my family, friends, and new found freedom honestly.

H managed to lie in family court and got a 3 week delay...judge still ordered him to pay something until we reconvene as he hadn't contributed to the family finances in two months...so not sure what the delay is about.

As far as the alleged assault charges, yes he is using this to try and gain leverage in family court for support. It was his first words when the judge spoke to him. I am not at all concerned with this, called in some favors to have a very good attorney for the "charges" and called in some other favors that are sure to get that case dismissed.

So all in all, life is good. Oh, and I must be giving of very good PMA, because I have been flirted with left and right within the past couple of weeks. Even got asked to go to dinner when I have some free time.

I am not sure that I want to start any relationships, but maybe some dinner dates might not be bad for me...IDK. I haven't made any plans or decisions on this, so no worries people