Follow the advice of your DB coach, at least for now.
Confrontation never goes calmly and rationally. And until you know exactly what boundaries you want or need, the real possibility exists that you may say stuff that you regret later.
The time will come when this does come out, but I don't think it is anytime soon.
Please keep posting so you can get off of moderation and get some people reading your thread.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
