I am going to disagree with Positive Spin. I don't think you should remove the goal of changing things about yourself that you don't like.

You definately should work to be the kind of person you like.

Now, your goal is very broad. So it needs to be narrowed down...

What are small things you don't like?

Hair, shower habits, the way you dress, how much time you spend in front of the tv (or computer, video game, etc...)...

I know there are bigger things, but its always best and easiest to start small. And generally with stuff you can see results faily quickly with. The harder stuff comes later.

So that is my example of a list...

What is yours?


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox