so sorry this is happening K I don't blame you not wanting to go to the family reunion, I wouldn't want to either! When my H introduce hos OW to my MIL, she didn't say anything to me at the time, but when we'd got back together she told me she didn't like her. She wondered why my H was with her as she was just not his type and taller than him. Just let it go for now. I know it hurts very much, but like mimi says your H will soon come to his senses. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!