I can say that you don't always feel "in love". That's a myth. Yes you still love them and you have a commitment to them and the children and you just keep working on things, knowing as SD said, feelings will evolve and change.
The key is to keep working on you, doing things that make you happy, having your own life away from H and the kids and when there isn't so much pressure on being "in love" you might find that you are again.
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n the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
^^^ need to be drilled into every partner in pre-marriage counseling, by every pastor, priest, justice of the peace, etc, before the vows and during them...
Excellent stuff!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
