Sorry this is happening Kelela. If H is bringing OW around, his family has no choice but to be kind and courteous adults to her.

That doesn't mean they like you any less, but I guess in situations like this everybody if forced to accept certain things as no one can control your H's actions. Life has to take it's course and your H will learn his lesson soon enough.

Continue to be positive and work on your goals in spite of.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope