"It's only human nature to try and figure things out". This^^^^is one of our problems. We are FIXERS. Sadly our WAS don't want us to fix them or the M. If you are discussing your stich with friends or family members it is no advisable. I would stop that practice. Especially if your comments about her are negative. If you were to reconcile they will not look favorably towards her min the future. Yes DETACH. Someone told me to give myself to the universe. Sounded nutty at the time. Later on I did, felt free and still practice it today when things look gloomy. Just trust that it will be fine
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
