Thanks DMR1965. I appreciate your input. Joanne has the knack to leave you feeling a little better and stronger after a coaching session. We did discuss that it may not be the time to reveal that I am completely aware of the details of my wife's EA/PA at this time. We agreed to use the benefit of time while she's still living in our home and coming home to me each night. Instead, I'll work on improving myself, so W can see what is available to her should she come to realize that the relationship with OM is not going to last. More importantly, I need to make myself happier with the authentic me and not be so focused on "what if"? It's tough.
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
