Unlearning conflict avoidance 5

[StubbornDyke]

Good to see you back here, Luke.

How about if W wants to keep the cat in at night, then it can stay in the room she's in and she can be in charge of managing her "system".

Or, if the cat is meowing to go out, you take it up and put it in the room where W is sleeping?

If W asks, you say the cat was crying for its mother.