2old, my exw lives 4 miles away and I have had zero contact with her. She has not even given me her new number or email and we have a D together. She should initiate contact. Remember the squirrel analogy. The closer you want to get the faster they will run. Yes anniversaries and holidays are very hard but you should not chase her to celebrate them. That is what she wants and you must respect her wishes. You will experience the stages of grieving. Anger, Denial, Negotiating, Accepting and there is one more that I can't remember. Look at Kubler Ross for it.
What's with the 2old thing. Too old for what?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
