I definitely don't feel the need to date. At least not now. I miss the comfortable feeling of being married and having someone to come home to, but I don't miss the dating scene.
I know how you feel. I often think how much better my day would be when I would receive a hug from my stbx. Something about her arms around me just made things right. On the flip side. The person I loved and knew no longer exists.
Dating has also been on my mind but at the same time I'm with you I don't feel the need. I don't really have the confidence.
One day at a time.
Me 32 W 30 Married 11 D10, S6 BD#1 January of 09 OM#1 2005 OM#2 Dec 08 OM#3 March/April of 09 Back together August 09 OM#4 May 13 W moves out June 2013 BD#2 June 21 2013 Filed July 2013 D final in Oct