Portia "I sometimes cannot help but wonder if he just really isn't a good person. Good people do not cheat, lie and abandon. Or say such callous things like his life is good and so are all the changes in it."

I swear my H was a good man before this MLC sucked his soul out Portia. He always hated cheaters, liars, and abandoners. He still seems to, in fact. OTHER people who cheat and lie and abandon. But he is able to rationalize his own actions somehow. You would not have loved your SO all those years if he was not a good person.

You need to do what your heart tells you to do. What ever you decide to do Portia, I am behind you all the way. I'm proud of you too, and count you as a very dear friend. 


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17