Originally Posted By: Portia

The sad truth of it is is that these last four months have been a struggle for me, finalizing my parents estate, dad in hospital and more funerals than I have been to in my life. I don't want him to know any of this. And I feel a bit of a failure on the GAL front

I have changed a lot on the inside but not much on the outside.


So you've been through a really tough period in your life, probably the toughest period ever, and managed to change a lot on the inside. That doesn't sound like a failure to me.

Contact/don't contact, ask/don't ask, but whatever you do please be proud of yourself and all that you have accomplished. We are!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl