You know, S_I_D, you have a special burden to bear right now with your pregnancy and I think that you H is logically feeling like a deadbeat (or at least he should) and maybe will come to his senses when your birth occurs. It sounds like MLC on his end and that he needs to just own up to his responsibilities of parenthood but that's me being black and white about things.
That is a really tough task but it sounds like you are up to the challenge of bringing a healthy baby into the world. Keep in touch.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."