subguy, I'm just glad that I'm not the only one who is hearing conflicting messages.

I'm willing to commit 100% if I knew which path to take, but I'm not sure which one it is. So I think I'm just hopping in place at the fork in the road!

I can be patient, as long as I feel that I'm making tiny steps forward. A master's degree doesn't happen overnight, but I have assignments to do each night and a plan of action to get me to the goal- May 2014 graduation! If only db'ing could be so easy.

I'm on a dating site now, but I've decided to be somewhat lazy and make the guys make the effort. We'll see if any of them attract my attention enough to make me respond to them.

I definitely don't feel the need to date. At least not now. I miss the comfortable feeling of being married and having someone to come home to, but I don't miss the dating scene.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13