Subguy, I made sure I don't forget the W or one of the things she said that hurt. She said in a letter "sometimes we simply don't get a second chance..." So I have taken it to heart literally, and got a tattoo over my heart.
"No Second Chances" Wife Nov 89 - Oct 12
My married date and BD date. This tattoo means a lot to me. Makes me remember a lot of heartache but also to move on and take note of it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.