Subguy, I made sure I don't forget the W or one of the things she said that hurt. She said in a letter "sometimes we simply don't get a second chance..."
So I have taken it to heart literally, and got a tattoo over my heart.

"No Second Chances"
Wife Nov 89 - Oct 12

My married date and BD date.
This tattoo means a lot to me. Makes me remember a lot of heartache but also to move on and take note of it.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.