Thanks for stopping by my thread. I have been reading a little here and see that you are moving ahead just beyond where I am at, I told H he can have a D and he actually sounded insulted.
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I want to keep the family together. I want him to know that I am not standing forever and I think standing for as long as I did was an accomplishment
My H is the first to say I have made quite an accomplishment standing my ground, and I know he expects me to continue as long as he needs.
Do you ever feel like the stronger you get, and the more independent you are about GAL without him, the more he sees you as "being just fine"!
Your sound very strong, and in touch with what you need to do.
You sound like me really putting your kids first and trying to have fun with them. I only have one D19, but thank goodness we are freakishly close.
Your H's is so confused, and it is probably because he has a snake near his ear telling him what he needs to do. They are so smart, like a fox, those OP.
The R with the OP never stays as fun and fresh as when it started. Hopefully your H will come to realize it was a fantasy one day.
Stay strong...! Best, dm
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
