He is concerned about me dating and moving on. What is that about? He tells me he does not want to be married, this relationship is done. But then makes comments about me not dating and waiting for him after his next relationship fails. Or us remarrying in the future. Is he just being nice? Giving me false hope? I ask him why he cares and he gets grumpy. "Did I say I care?!"
Did he really say this? that he wants you to WAIT for him after his next r fails?... how selfish of him is this. Most WAS become so inconsiderate at times but this is one of the most selfish comments I've seen here. This is your easy 180 right there. How about showing him that you are definitely NOT waiting for him until his R fails. Don't tell him but show him that you are absolutely NOT. "I ask him why he cares and he gets grumpy" ... why do you even ask that? Don't. Always give him vague answers and NEVER ever tell him that you are waiting for him. Look great at all times and show him that you are moving on. If he makes annoying comments like that, try your hardest to not respond and change the subject.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
