My h called yesterday morning to ask if I wanted to get together with our daughter for a BBQ late in the afternoon. We agreed on a time and logistics. In his non thinking mind he asked me if I'd come by and pick him up before picking her up at her apt. I asked him if he minded coming by so that at least his truck would be here when we came back to the house. He seemed clueless as to why. I told him that explaining why both of his vehicles weren't here would be harder than just one of them. Doesn't he think she'll wonder what happened to them. Both in the shop for repairs??? He thinks about it for a few seconds and says, yeah, we don't want her to start asking questions or upset her.
We picked her up, went shopping and came back here. She hasn't seen him in over a month other than to see his truck in town. She always sends me a text when she sees it asking if I'm with him or not. We had a great time, h was very happy to share dinner with her and according to him happy that we ALL were together for dinner. I was pretty busy but I did notice that he send a few text messages while he was here. He also went in search of batteries while I was busy getting dinner ready. Doesn't he realize that I'm a mom and I know what he's doing even if I'm not around? Good thing I hid the batteries. He asked if I had any of a certain type and I said if they're not in the place where they usually are then I must be out. HA!
He was here about 3 hours and seemed relaxed, content to be here and almost as if it was just a normal Sunday dinner. When it came time to leave, he walked off toward the Mstr Bdrm. My daughter asked me if she could borrow something so it gave me the excuse I needed to go into the MBath. He was in the bedroom looking around while petting the cat. He didn't see or hear me so I slipped in and out without notice. I'm sure he was surveying the room to see if there was anything else he could slip out of there. LOL
About 45 minutes after they left he called to thank me and to tell me he had a great time, complimented me again on how good I looked, how good the dinner was and how much he liked the dress I was wearing. Guess I'm lookin' pretty good to a lonely mlcin' man! LOL I thanked him for taking our daughter home and said good night. He wasn't finished talking and carried on about whatever then said that he'd see me again soon.
When he said that he'd see me soon, I didn't realize that he meant again this morning but that's a whole other conversation. I'll be back later to continue.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
