TryingToDo180, most members put goal/GAL's in their own topic pages. That way others can assist with your focus on these. jp some good goals, all I can suggest, as someone said to me, make them smaller. Similar to what positivespin is saying: start with one book, what type of topics do you like? Higher power: are you going to read up on them? Or visit a different one each weekend? New activity: great, but what? Adventure, club, by yourself or in a group? Good luck jp, it is a step in the right direction.
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