wife hardends heart-2

[planet]

I think growing up, she's this headstrong person which to her family she will do anything she says just to prove her point. Her family believes her threats.
I believe it too. She can be very extreme. Threaten to commit suicide is the first time. It can be due to her anger at the moment. I'm not so sure she will actually do it.
She always thinks she's right. She never blames herself. In fact, she rarely apologizes to me which is one of the things that hurts me the most.
To put things into perspective, my mom and sis said and did things that really hurt her feelings. My inaction made it worse. She is hurting badly and this is not tantrum throwing. I saw it as trivial but not to her. I understand it now.