Portia, I agree w/FY...do not ask questions...listen! The more you listen, the more he will open up and tell you about the changes, etc. in his life. Keep the conversations light and fun. By all means, you can tell him about some of the fun things in your life...but stay the course and listen and appear interested when he tells you things about his life. His ego is one that is bigger than the $2 ticket!
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
