ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
I also confessed to him. That when he said he would still be here if I hadn't forced the issue, that maybe I wouldn't have been, because I was not very happy either.
What an interesting truth. Our sitch's are the catalysts for some serious evaluation and growth.
I marvel at you level of detachment!
Spin! LOL!! You crack me up!
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
The minute you stop lying to yourself is never pretty. ;P
Today in an email I clarified that I was becoming a WAS, but emotionally, because when someone doesn't want to be around you, it hurts, even if he has never said a word. We nitpicked, argued, strong armed (that was me...) but didn't communicate. I said that if I had been capable of this level of communication and growth in the marriage, maybe things would have been different.
