She is still very confused and maybe reality is hitting. SOMEBODY has to be a rock and it will be you.

Dont try to figure out her mess. Dont make any sudden decisions that you may regret later.I know youve been dealing with your sitch for awhile . Be 100% certain that you are done and not just pissed.

You deserve happiness- do you know what that looks like for you?

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13