I'm sorry you feel this way... I hear it gets easier lol. Your not alone and it is common to have sad feelings.
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I knew that I wouldn't magically move on overnight, but I thought once the D was finalized, I'd be able to understand that H was gone and out of my life. Instead it seems to just make me sadder, because before I at least had hope that we could work on things.
And now I'm wondering if I'm the silly woman waiting for her ex to come back home when everyone else knows that it'll never happen.
It will take you as long as it takes you, try not to put a time table on your feelings. Silly? not in my opinion, hopeful not silly.
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For months I've asked God for a sign, whether I'm supposed to move on or hope for a reconciliation. Just to know which direction I need to go in.
Keep praying and looking for HIS will. not yours. Don't give up just before the blessing happens. We often want answers on our time table and that's not how God works, probably because he's waiting for us to change and grow. Hang in there...
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I can think long-term, in fact, that's one of my downfalls because I downplay the present, but if I'm already D, should I just move on? Really, what are the chances he would want to try again after D'ing me?
Move on or just live and live life to the fullest. Jump into the stream of life with both feet, live for you. We need to get to the point of not thinking of what are the chances they will want to get back together. We need to think, how can I squeeze every bit of life out, because we cannot get yesterday back and tomorrow may never happen (I include myself in that we).
If he ever wants back then you can decide if you want him back... Be a powerful, beautiful, kind woman and you will attract that kind of man. Either your X or some other lucky fool
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
