2old it has only been 3 months for you and you have only just started 180 (about 3 weeks). When I say only 3 months, that is in the scheme of things. I used to think 3 months is a long time, but I know I've still got a loooooooong way to go. After this morning's phone call, I think I've got even further to go! You can read about that on my thread on DB newcomer.
For the first 2 months, I didn't know anything about DB or DR. When I got positive interactions with my H then I would pursue him which made him distance myself further. There was one week when I thought that he was starting to come round, then the following week he was saying he was filing for D.
Your reunion is not going to happen overnight, so start living smile Your W will not get over her MLC/depression overnight either. She first needs to accept she's got depression/MLC and that could take a while! It's the same with my H, until he gets help for his depression he won't get better. If it's clinical depression he's got then he should go on tablets IMHO. He also needs to have IC as he's still got a few issues to sort out. Until he can accept that he needs the help though, he won't be coming back any time soon. I can only wait. It's also no good me telling him to get help as the stubborn streak in him will just make him dig his heels in further! I am hoping my life coach will be able to talk to him this week about his depression and other issues. We can but hope smile

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T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!