T2 I would like to ask your opinion. For some reason I relate to your posts and your advice. I've been walking through a 12 step program and looking inward at myself. The problem I am struggling with is my W is texting OM (old flames etc).
Part of me wants me to let her know that I find hurtful and that I don't that type of stuff should go on in a marriage. Sort of say "when OM txt you I feel very uncomfortable and hurt" then STFU. This was the only way I could come up with non attacking.
I know you have walked this walk and wanted to hear your thoughts on it. I know I have to continue to do my work but also feel I'm not being honest with myself and my W by hold this type of crap in. Thoughts.
