Well, I certainly cannot sit on the ceiling nor can I drink coffee with a fork...hmmmm...lol...Anyway's it seems to me you might be spot on here with MLC. Although its past her midlife as I understand it you can be 70 and get hit with MLC. At any age MLC or depression can cause havoc in the mindset. Family here like myself have continued to say it doesn't make sense. If I rehashed it all again here it still would not make sense. Yes, Im not perfect god forbid, but WAW knew and still knows I am not a bad person. She knows our R wasn't perfect and could of been worked on but she knows I did not treat her so bad that she can justify walking away like she did. In total secrecy from me without saying a thing. And now she doesnt have hardly to say to me and continues her own way. She did not have an OM when she left but who knows now. But, I know I have got to stay quiet and not even peek my head out towards her. Unfortunately, I also need to keep contact with stepdaughter very limited also. Shes in my corner but anything she might try to say to her mother about me probably wont be heard. 2 weeks from our 6th anniversary and its gonna be quiet for a loooong time Im feeling as I dont think she will be reaching back out to me anytime soon if at all.


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