2old, My H is the same. He has a lot of hurt inside and a lot of it probably isn't related to me. He had a lot going on at the start of the year, that took him into a deep depression. Hearing a lot of this story makes me think that your wife did the same. She she have treatment or counselling when her dad died? My H refuses to have medication or counselling and his depression goes up and down. I think the reason that my H left and may why your W left is to do with not getting help for their depression. Try not to look at any pages on FB to do with her family. I guess you've read Sandi's rules and this is one of the rules that Sandi has stated. She also says it will only upset you and it does. I went to my H's page on Saturday as I do occasionally and now I'm convinced he is having an affair with this much older woman. Crazy I know, but it's my fault for going to look at his FB page. It probably is unfounded as well, it's just my mind working overtime!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
