On the way home he said he wants his old dad back. I tried explaining that may never happen but that he has to remember that what is going on between me and H is in no way his fault and that regardless of anything else we both still love him.
That's good that you had that talk with him. It must be hard and confusing to him right now. He knows that you are there for him. Hopefully his dad will start spending more time with him, as it sounds like he needs that.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.