The PAIN that she has is not the same as your PAIN. You can not see it cause it is deep inside her, hidden from the world. Torturing her and holding her captive. She wears a MASK for everyone to see so that they will not know about this tremendous force that has decended inside of her. She runs away from it trying hard to keep going and keep up appearances. All this is on adrenalin and the flight or fight response of her body. She may fear that she is going to die if she doesnt keep running. It has NOTHING to do with YOU. You are just an innocent bystander.
Let her run, at some point she will not be able to any more.
Protect yourself as best you can from the PAIN that she causes.
DO you understand this about her PAIN? DO you need to know what causes it? More than likely it is hormonal depression, with maybe some childhood issues thrown in. Were there any illnesses or deaths in her family recently? Any other significant events that happened?
Again this is all about her, not about YOU or your relationship. The relationship is just a casualty of the bomb blowing up.
