My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

[tadpole1025]

Tad, who the heck cares if she thinks your terrible or she thinks you cheated? If she knows about your family or if she gives you 100 reasons why she left? Who cares what she thinks or does?

Hey there. You are so right. It is just very frustrating. I get frustrated because she will accuse me of so many terrible things and tell so many lies about me and then say something like: "I prayed for a miracle for us."

My question is: If I cheated on her and did all of these terrible things, why would she even WANT to save the marriage?

Tad