I had often thought of you and wondered how things were going!
I wonder how W's feelings have or have not changed during the time you have been gone. The contact you have had sounds positive, and it sounds like you haven't overdone it.
Let us know more details, as you can.
Wishing you the best, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway