Figuring out the old and new life

[reachingHigher]

You're in a good place, FY. I hope I didn't suggest you were having R talks with W, b/c of what I said about having many R talks with my H. As I recall after replay started he was usually the one initiating those, too, but this was only for a few short months and after we started D talks in earnest. It's kinda a blur to me now.

I think you have a clear vision of what is going on. It's interesting about the 65 year old rich man W & her GF hang around with. Makes W feel "safe" until it gets too close.

I noticed the girls my H mostly hung around with tended to be short and fat and not too attractive (thus had no BF's) and I think it made H feel safe too.

Glad you got a nice office and a peaceful aquarium to provide a calming atmosphere