Nero "hey- that's a nice little perker-upper there. i wouldn't mind someone telling me what a swell gal i am. not likely to happen at a school - but oh well. if all else fails i'll get a job as checkout girl in lowes or somethwere with lots and lots of men passing thru- just to keepin touch with the other sex. (whattya think??? got somethingthere??)"
Probably being around friendly peoe in general would help, Nero. You're alone too much now, or have just your mom. It's uplifting and fun to be around other folks. Doubly so when it's a cute 42 year old man and you're 60. I'm not stupid enough to think that is a viable relationship but it's fun.
uRw "Ok, Dawn, can I just say I absolutely love the term chronic assholism. That is my new favorite word. LOL!
Nero, you know, this isnt about changing into someone they want. F that. This is about you changing into someone you want. And that's only if you feel there is anything you need to change."
Me too uR, a lot of things I read here tickle me but "chronic assholism" just about takes the cake
Nero you do not need to change who you are. I know we are told to do 180s on the legitimate things that bothered our Hs about us. But unless YOU agree it's a real fault that you should work on, then don't. Like uR said, F that.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
